A bachelorette party of two?

But I feel obligated to pay for the bride's food, drinks, and activities while she's here. She's already staying at my place for the weekend along with her husband and their baby. This whole thing just kind of spiraled and I don't really know what to do anymore. I was also planning on getting her a crown and sash that says bachelorette but I think it will just end up looking sad if it's just the two of us. I'm not even really sure what advice I'm asking for as this point, but any and all is welcome.

She's bringing he (I'm assuming here) FH and baby? To a bachelorette party?

You could possibly make it a mini-spa day? Maybe get mani/pedis and massages? Then at night have a mini slumber-party with old movies and wine?

ETA: words are hard

I personally won't travel more than an hour for a shower or bachelorette. Most normal people have a budget and may be using their allotted travel money for the wedding. I'm not surprised

I hope you three have fun though!

I agree with Leona. I think a spa day would be better for such occasion given that it's only you two. Did she specify that she wants to go out to bars/clubs?

Leona that's not a bad idea. Maybe we'll do brunch in the morning and see about a day spa. At night we can order pizzas, drink wine and watch movies.

@Mrs. Fougere, she didn't specify clubs and dancing but she does want the bachelorette party experience. However, I think with our limited number that ship has sailed.

@Kmess - the 'bachelorette' experience will be different for everyone. My bach party was this past weekend and we went to a cottage in the middle of nowhere, drank (too much), and hung out on the lake for 2 straight days.

It was perfect for me.

Just plan something your friend will like. The best part of mine was how relaxing it was. Don't overthink it

IMHO the whole bachelorette thing is out of control....weekends away? Flights? Who has the time or the money for that?

Go out, have a couple of drinks, maybe do a spa thing or a painting thing. It'll be fun. Or it won't, but it'll be done.

For my bachelorette it was just me and my younger sister who is my maid of honor. We ran wedding errands in the morning on saturday then had a spa day in the afternoon. Got dressed up went to a fancy dinner place and then went back to the hotel and drank. My older sister then face-timed us and was like you guys need to go out but it was humid as fuck so we didn't want to walk around to the bars so older sister suggested hitting the casino. Ha I ended up winning $200! It was so fun and super relaxing! Just have fun with it no matter who's there it'll be a good time. I also wore a sash and a big fake diamond ring necklace to the casino and people were like OMG Congratulations! it was kinda fun

Wait - so the MOH planned the party and won't even be there?

Don't feel obligated to pay for everything. At this point, it's not a bachelorette party.

Spa day and dinner sounds nice.