Hello Everyone!
First time posting on here and looking for some advise from people who were supposed to get married this year but are waiting for next year.
I live in PA and due to COVID I do not see this happening in Sept. I do not want my quests to be uncomfortable or have to wear a mask. Right now the wedding can happen but masks are required unless you are seated (even if you are on the dance floor they must be worn). For me that is no way to have a party/celebration.
Background and why I am looking for some advice/help...- We have been together 10 years this year and have been engaged for 3. ITS TIME!!! Lol- Options are: 1. Still get married this year and have a small ceremony then next year have the big celebration. 2. Just get married this year and no celebration next year. 3. Wait entirely for next year. - I personally wanted a small intimate ceremony so for me I am like YES in my head. However, he is not thrilled and wants to be swept off his feet and have the full experience. I do not want to take this away from him but what if something happens next year and it cannot happen again? He is worried about people not wanting to come if we marry this year and celebrate next year, but I know they will. Most people don’t show up to the ceremony anyways. Also, that we won’t be given any money and we are spending $$$$ for them to eat a dinner (kind of shallow to think that way but you always hope to get most of what you spent back).
P.S Both our parents are on board with still getting married this year and celebrating next year.
What is happening with you girls and how are you and your significant other handling it?
Thanks for all your help! Meg 😘
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