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Just Said Yes March 2021

4 Hour Timeline

Amanda, on February 24, 2020 at 1:33 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 10
Just wanting to see if anyone else is doing an “express” wedding. We’re having about 100 people, mostly family and very close family friends. We’re doing no alcohol, and have no expectations for people to hang around after the cake. We actually kind of want people to leave soon after haha. We’ve just started working with a family friend who is a wedding planner and this is our timeline so far:


11- 11:20 am- ceremony 11:30-12:30pm- photos (reception venue 20 minutes away, giving guests time to get to venue and then we will have queso, chips and guac apps served)12:30-12:50pm- bride and groom travel to reception1-1:05pm- bride and groom entrance and shortened first dance1:05-1:15pm- welcome and blessing by groom1:15-2pm- lunch, tacos, beans and rice buffet1:45-2pm (after everyone seated but some still eating)- “toasts” by 3 toasters. I say toast but more like speech because no alcohol2-2:10pm- cake cutting2:10- 2:50pm- socializing 2:55pm- send off
We want more of a nice after get together versus blowout party. We’ve gotten some pushback from parents on doing a first dance with no other dancing, but I want to dance one song with my new husband and it’s only about 2 minutes so even if people thinks it’s weird I kind of don’t care? Just wanted some other opinions on this timeframe. There’s the potential to have a wine cocktail hour and then shut the bar down as soon as dinner starts. Do you think it’d be better to have alcohol for a little bit or none at all? Our guests will not be offended with the lack of alcohol.

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Latest activity by Jana, on April 15, 2020 at 12:45 PM
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    Just Said Yes March 2021
    Amanda ·
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    This may be easier to read?


    11- 11:20 am- ceremony


    11:30-12:30pm- photos (reception venue 20 minutes away, giving guests time to get to venue and then we will have queso, chips and guac apps served)


    12:30-12:50pm- bride and groom travel to reception


    1-1:05pm- bride and groom entrance and shortened first dance


    1:05-1:15pm- welcome and blessing by groom


    1:15-2pm- lunch, tacos, beans and rice buffet


    1:45-2pm (after everyone seated but some still eating)- “toasts” by 3 toasters. I say toast but more like speech because no alcohol


    2-2:10pm- cake cutting


    2:10- 2:50pm- socializing


    2:55pm- send off


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  • Heather
    Beginner April 2021
    Heather ·
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    Honestly, your guests took the time out of their busy lives to come get dressed up to celebrate YOUR big day, and probably bought you a nice gift. They deserve a few drinks.
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    Just Said Yes March 2021
    Amanda ·
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    We have no registry and have asked for no money- letting people know any and all cash/checks will be donated to the local women’s shelter.
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  • Kimberly
    Super March 2021
    Kimberly ·
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    Alcohol is not required at any event. Getting dressed up and celebrating doesn’t equate to needing drinks.


    Could you do some pictures prior to the ceremony to shorten the time after the ceremony so that you are getting to the reception a little quicker? I worry that an hour of chips, queso and guac will be a lot. Don’t get me wrong I could just eat that all day long, but people may get restless.

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    Amanda ·
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    I like that idea! We can get the majority done before the ceremony and then do 30 minutes it quick full family and couples, our wedding party is 2 people each so those can we knocked out quickly.
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  • Heather
    Beginner April 2021
    Heather ·
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    I like that idea re: gifts. I’d still make sure my guests are well taken care of with drinks.
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  • Heather
    Beginner April 2021
    Heather ·
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    Depends on your circle of friends. I’d be embarrassed to host my friends and family without serving them drinks. Again, that’s just how our circle works.
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  • Sherry
    Master September 2019
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    I personally don't see any issues with your timeline or having no alcohol.

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    My only concern, too. 90 minutes between end of ceremony and couple arriving is for too much time. Taking some pics ahead, trimming the time to 30 min plus travel, is much more courteous.
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    Master October 2022
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    You can have fun drinks like lemonade, iced tea, horchata. That early in the day, I would be shocked to see alcohol served but still enjoy myself. Your guests want to celebrate with you so a half hour is pretty short for socializing after dinner. Otherwise I don't see any issues.
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