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Just Said Yes June 2018

3pm wedding lunch or dinner acceptable?

Dj, on April 16, 2018 at 5:36 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 11
As a guest, would you feel awkward/unhappy eating at 3pm? Would it inconvenience you too much?

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Latest activity by PalmTrees, on April 17, 2018 at 1:18 AM
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    Devoted September 2020
    Caitlin ·
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    I like to eat at all times of the day so... no objections here. I'd probably just plan to have a later breakfast/brunch and late dinner or late night snack that day.

    That would be a time where you wouldn't be obligated to provide a full meal if you just wanted to do appetizers and desserts, but I will never turn down, be upset with, or be inconvenienced by someone offering me MORE food than I might want.

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  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
    muriel ·
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    What time is the ceremony? 3 pm is more appropriate for light refreshments than a meal.

    Your guests will likely have had lunch before the ceremony and would not normally eat dinner till later. You could be looking at a lot of wasted food that you are paying for.

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    Master July 2018
    Cuoghi ·
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    It would be kind of odd. Like a full dinner at 3 or appetizers and then dinner a bit later?
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    Super February 2019
    Amy ·
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    I feel like you can never go wrong offering food as long as people know what to expect. If they want, they can adjust their eating schedule that day- or just not eat as much at that time. I'd just be pretty clear on exactly what you'll be serving!


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  • Kat
    Expert May 2019
    Kat ·
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    My family is Italian and typically eats “Sunday dinner” at this time on holidays and special occasions. So no, I wouldn’t find it odd at all. Our engagement party is a 4 course lunch starting at 2pm. I’m just making sure people know there will be a ton of food!

    As a PP said, I can’t imagine people being bothered by MORE food than they expect.
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    Devoted September 2018
    Tara ·
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    Is your ceremony or reception at 3? If the reception starts at 3, a lighter meal is fine. If your ceremony starts at 3, your reception will hit around dinner time.
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  • magnolia5
    VIP June 2019
    magnolia5 ·
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    When is the food being served? I wouldnt complain, but I probably wouldn't eat much considering it's at a non meal time. Can I ask why you are considering a dinner at 3 PM?
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    Expert May 2018
    2018wedding ·
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    Nope. I love food. I may eat less but def not complain over a free meal.
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    Devoted January 2019
    S ·
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    I would not mind. If the invitation said that a meal would be served, I'd probably just have a late breakfast or a snack rather than a full lunch before-hand.

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  • The Nuptials
    VIP July 2018
    The Nuptials ·
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    As long as I know ahead of time, it sounds lovely. People start getting ready to attend the wedding way before 3, so i would have definitely ate a nice lunch thinking 3pm may be more snack focused. Then I would be sad that I already ate 😭.
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    Super January 2019
    PalmTrees ·
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    I’d feel awesome eating at 3. I eat at random varying times so I’d have no problem and probably pumped I didn’t have to wait till later lol!
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