3 weeks left

This is totally normal! Something that helped me was to make a list of the things that HAD to be done... by which I mean, the day would be ruined or SEVERELY impaired without them. This means things like, pick up flowers, make signs, edit vows for the 20th time, do NOT belong on this list.

Make sure your officiant is good to go, you have your marriage license, you both have things to wear, etc and think of everything else as “extra.” Once you see how small the list of things that MUST get done is, you’ll be a lot less overwhelmed.

I agree that this is all normal. Lists are a great thing and just get to prioritize what is a must. Ask for help from friends if you can and take time out to rest a bit. It will all come together.

Yep!! We are 15 days out, aaaaaahhhhhhhh!!! I get nervous about forgetting something, then excited! FH is the same way! I've been making list upon list, and just trying to make sure we have everything! It's even worse because we have to travel home so we have to pack everything up including the cats!! Not boarding them because FHs mom wants to see them, we will be home for over a week, and out cats actually dont do too bad in cars! But I feel ya!

Oh, boy, do I feel you! We're at a month out, and I vacillate wildly between "WE'VE GOT THIS" and "hellllllllllllllp".