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Jessica
VIP October 2019

3 months out.. People annoying me 😂

Jessica, on July 5, 2019 at 8:12 PM Posted in Planning 0 4
So today marks three months until the wedding (yay!). We sent out invites the other day and RSVPs are starting to trickle in.. Well, earlier on in the planning process (I think it was early March) FMIL and FH's step brother and his wife came to visit. I had picked them up from the airport while FH was at work and took them to lunch. While at lunch, the wedding came up and the wife announced that the kids were so excited to fly for the wedding. I'm not sure what the look on my face was, but I'd have to imagine it was very surprised. We never planned on inviting kids (any kids) to the wedding. We specifically addressed the save the dates to only the two parents, but they still assumed they were invited. I just said something like oh.. And changed the subject quickly. Well, I of course told FH he had to talk to them which he did (to his mom) after they got home. Fast forward to this week, sent out invitations and the step brother RSVPd yes for him but no for the wife, which was understandable because the kids are not invited 🤷 Well tonight I get an email that the RSVP was updated and now she says yes. I feel like they are going to flip flop for the next three months and I'm already feeling stressed about it. Like, either come or don't, but don't do this for the next 12 weeks. Anyway, just venting at this point, but ready for the wedding and to celebrate with FH and then not a plan another event for a long time 😂

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Latest activity by Sinéad, on July 9, 2019 at 7:31 AM
  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    Try to let it go for now and maybe a few days before your final count is due reach out and ask for confirmation on it. Good luck!
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  • A
    Master June 2020
    Anna ·
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    Maybe she just secured a sitter, When she didn't have one before? Or he filled out the RSVP wrong. 🤷

    You never know!

    Don't worry, I think you are making a mountain, out of a mole hill.
    I think it will be fine❤
    Don't make more stress for yourself, than you have toSmiley smile
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  • MrsJohansson
    Expert June 2019
    MrsJohansson ·
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    I don't have much else to add other than people annoy me too so I hear you. 😆 I hope you the rest of your planning goes smoothly!

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  • Sinéad
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2025
    Sinéad ·
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    Hey Jessica! I'm sorry that this is worrying you but as the pps mentioned, there may have been a number of reasons for her to change her RSVP. You have made it clear that you want your wedding to be adults only so you have done all that you can about it.

    You're allowed to get annoyed and vent, so don't feel bad about it! Just try and focus your wonderful wedding at the end of the tunnel😊

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