My fiancé's Aunt spoke her mind about our wedding and for some reason I am letting it effect me, I was married when I was 18 and divorced by 21. I had a backyard wedding and didn't get to pick my wedding dress colors didn't have dancing. Fast forward, I am with a man who for some reason loves me so much and my kids he treats me like a queen and still finds ways to love me even when it's hard to love myself, He is perfect to me. I have had 7 kids from my previous relationship and together we have 1. his family likes me and are excited for the wedding, My fiancé has never been married before. so it's his first and is excited for the wedding and we decided to do a wedding that we can afford, His aunt said that she thinks we should spend the money on the kids however my fiancé and I want a wedding with the bells and whistles and to reflect our family. is it wrong to want a big wedding even though I am a 2nd time bride and it's my fiancé's first or should we just have a small wedding and be done with it?