2Nd Marriage invitation verbage

No, you should be using the name you currently use. This is also my second marriage, and i've had my; exes name longer than I had my maiden name.

Use your current name to reduce confusion. If your wedding isn't formal you can just do first names wherever you want.

No, you wouldn’t typically use your maiden name. Your name is your name and it’s what you should use. None of your guests are going to think “wow I can’t believe she’s using her ex husband’s name,” unless they truly are such negative people. If anything, using anything other than your current name is going to be confusing to your guests. You chose to keep the name, why hide it now?

I would use your current name. People will understand!

No, use your current name. We were both married and kept our married names which our sons also carry. We used our current names since we have had these names for 20+ years.

This was my 2nd marriage too and I never changed my last name back to my maiden name after the divorce. So my invitation used my then current last name which was my ex's last name. That was how everyone knew me. As for using just your first names, that would be very casual and I would not do it unless you are having a very casual wedding.

Yep, like other posters said: Use your current legal name. That is your name, after all!! (At least for another year!!)