I don't think you're late sending them at all! We just sent our Change The Date cards for our July 2022 wedding. Save The Dates are usually sent out 6-8 months in advance, so I think you're right on track!
Nooo I haven’t! I felt the same way but my other gf said she did it 5-6 months 3 years ago. The guests can wait is a direct quote from her that stuck with me— but I did personally text my out of state relatives and friends. My photographer had to postpone engagement photos until next week