My fiancé and I are at a crossroad. We both have large families and currently have a guest list of about 200 people. We found a venue we both love and a caterer but our budget is creeping up around $45,000. My fiancé is not totally comfortable spending the money. He made a good point yesterday that we are both about to spend our entire savings for this wedding. We are paying for majority of the wedding (probably 85% or more).
Yesterday we threw around the idea of cutting the guest list drastically to 50 people. This would make it pretty much immediate family, god parents and closest friends. Did anyone have a wedding of 50 people? I have never attended a wedding like this and have no idea where to begin or how a day like this would feel. I just think that it would not feel like a wedding day. My fiancé says all he cares about is getting married. Traditions, guest list and peoples feelings do not matter to him at all.
Am I doing all of this for traditions sake and not to hurt peoples feelings? Am I making it about a big party and not simply two people getting married? Feeling lost right now and need advice!