2 weeks from today freak out

I should also mention I’ve been so overwhelmed I forgot to take my birth control for THREE days (I haven’t done that in 8 years) and totally screwed up my cycle. So hormones.... that too.

#3 - you don't have to decide what you're doing with your name right now, or even right after the wedding. Scratch that off your stress list. 😊

#4 - why would you cancel your trip 15 days out? Storms don't last for 15 days. And even if it rains, who cares? It's your honeymoon! So scratch that off too.

#1 - A quote from my mother - STOP THINKING ABOUT IT. YOU ARE FINE. Trust me, I know how it feels to be a hypochondriac at times. Your eyes are fine, and anxiety does some crazy stuff in people. Scratch that off your list too. Unless you have pink eye. Then don't scratch and get back to the doctor. 😊

#2 - If you're losing weight because of stress, eat ice cream. Problem solved. 😊

In all honesty, I have dealt with anxiety before. It's no picnic. But you'll be fine. Just start thinking past the wedding to the honeymoon and how relaxing it will feel to have this big celebration you've been planning for so long behind you. Not everything will be perfect, and that's ok! Good luck!

Hi date twin!! Right there with you. I feel like I wait till the last minute for everything, and I wonder why I’m so stressed out. Still have a bunch of DIY to do and decisions to make, which I’m not good at. And the weather forecast keeps freaking me out!

View Quoted Comment I agree with all of this except #3 because depending on her state (California for example) she has to put on the marriage license what she wants her new name to be after marriage. It's true she doesn't have to change it officially immediately (I've been married 8 months and am just now starting the process!) but if she doesn't mention the new name on the license then the only other way to change her name is through court which is a longer and more tedious process.

View Quoted Comment Exactly!! I am a California girl and this has been the hardest thing. I’ve heard it’s much harder to do later so I’m scared to wait but also don’t want to rush the decision.

View Quoted Comment THANK U!! Sometimes I need a good kick in the ***. I wish the issue was gaining weight!! The problem is tooo much ice cream. The anxiety thing (health and honeymoon) though, spot on. Other than the name change, which i have the write on the marriage certificate.