Both my fiance's parents & my parents are very religious and want us to be married in the Catholic church but I fell in love with an outdoor ceremony venue. Which of course, is a big no-no for Catholic church in California apparently. I have managed to get both sets of parents to agree to having our main ceremony outside and just doing a private catholic ceremony separately. Has anyone done this? We don't know if we should do the catholic ceremony before our main one or later on? It currently isn't feasible to do them the same day