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2 Mohs, how do i make them both feel special?

ALY C, on May 10, 2020 at 11:39 AM Posted in Planning 1 4

I am having 2 MOHs. One is my sister and the other is my dearest friend and I was the MOH in her wedding. I just want to make sure they both feel important on my wedding day because I really loved being a MOH and getting to do all of the special stuff for my best friend. I just know they both can't stand next to me or put on my veil, etc.

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Latest activity by Megan, on May 10, 2020 at 11:14 PM
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    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    My friend had her two sisters as maid of honors. She had the older one stand closer to her, but in your case I would have whichever one you are closer to stand next to you. She also had both sisters give toasts at the reception. If you don't like that idea, have one of them do a special reading at the ceremony and the other a toast. As for helping you could get ready, have both of them each help with something. My maid of honor helped my mom and grandmother with my corset. She also helped me put on my shoes since I was in a ballgown and I wore converses I needed help putting them on and tying them. She also helped me put my earrings in and necklace. My hairstyle put my tiara and veil on.

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Alternate those things you feel are an honor. One stands next to you, the other holds your bouquet. I’ve never heard of the MOH putting your veil on, but depending on your hairstyle, your stylist will likely do that for you.
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I had two! They both did really different roles. My MOH C actually shot our engagement photos and was gonna go dress shopping with me but the store went belly up before we could. And mY MOH V did a speech and held my bouquet
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  • Megan
    Savvy November 2020
    Megan ·
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    I was a “co-maid of honor” in my cousins wedding! The other girl was our best friend and my cousin did a wonderful job at making us both feel special. She kept us in a group text message so that we were both in the loop. She bought us matching accessories to wear that the other bridesmaids didn’t. The speech was really fun because we sort of did a joint speech since we had all been friends for a long time. It honestly felt very natural to both help the bride out with her veil, dress, etc. I understand where the situation can get awkward but since my cousin didn’t make a big deal about it we just had a fun time double pampering/taking care of her Smiley smile She did ask us if we had a preference of who stands next to her and I just let my friend be her right-hand maid more so than me because I have 4 sisters and knew I would be a MOH in a couple more weddings. If you’re worried I would just chat with them Smiley smile I agree with Caytlyn (a previous post) and split up the duties. They love you and should just want it to be the best day for you.
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