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2 maids of honor?

Lily, on October 7, 2018 at 12:01 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8
I really want to ask 2 of my very close friends to both be my maids of honor but i dont Know how to go about it! Should i ask Them at the same time and explain why i chose Both of them? Has anyone had 2 MOH? Advice please! And they are both unmarried so i can’t so matron/maid.

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Latest activity by Christine, on October 10, 2018 at 12:59 PM
  • Colleen
    Master September 2019
    Colleen ·
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    I was maids of honor for both my sisters weddings and my other sister was the other maid of honor. They are both being my matrons of honor. They know it already but. I am asking them and both my nieces to be my bridesmaids
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  • Meagan
    Expert May 2019
    Meagan ·
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    I have 2 maids of honor. Neither are married. I asked them seperatly because they don't really know eachother. I just asked them and explained to them that I was or did ask my other friend as well. They both took it really well and totally understood. They were both just so excited for me and honored to be a part of mt day. You know your girls best. Do what feels right and explain to them what you want and they will be thrilled to be up their sharing your day with you! Good luck
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  • Melissa
    VIP September 2019
    Melissa ·
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    I have 2 maids (technically matrons but I don’t like that word) of honor. I’m having both my sisters bc I could not choose between them and that’s the way we have done it at each of their weddings as well.
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  • Kenisha
    Champion June 2019
    Kenisha ·
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    I’m having one maid of honor + 4 bridesmaids
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  • Z
    Dedicated October 2019
    Zoë ·
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    I have two MOHs. They are both biological sisters, and considering I basically grew up with them, they call me their "sister", too. I couldn't pick between them, so I chose both! I actually asked them both together, since they are sisters anyhow, and neither of them are married, so they will both be co-Maids of Honor. I asked them together, that way one didn't feel cheated by being technically asked second. Not that they would, but I just played my cards safely. Haha!

    Your wedding, your way. If you want your two close friends to share the duties and honor, then you definitely should.

    Best of luck with all of your planning, and congratulations on your engagement and wedding!!!

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  • R
    Devoted November 2021
    Rachel ·
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    My bff had a matron of honor and a maid of honor. we are all three best friends, like a trio of awesome/charlies andgels set up lol. but anyway, the matron was married and so she got the title "MAtron of honor" but I as the single bff got Maid of honor, and i was the one who helped with all the planning and whatnot and we were both very happy with our roles, i would ask them separately but let them know that there are two roles

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  • Elizabeth
    Just Said Yes March 2019
    Elizabeth ·
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    I've been co-MOH in two weddings (one being my sister's) and I'm having 2 MOHs in mine (both my sisters.) A MOH should know she is there to support her friend-- no ego involved! I was thrilled to be asked to honor and support my friend and sister in this way, and having a second MOH did not take away from that all. If you have someone who would be offended, she's probably not a good choice for your MOH!

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  • C
    Dedicated June 2019
    Christine ·
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    I have 2 as well, my sister and my daughter. They both understand perfectly and are thrilled.
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