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Crystal
Just Said Yes August 2020

2 maid of honors

Crystal, on December 20, 2019 at 12:49 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 13
I have 2 best friends and I can’t choose between the 2 of them. I want both of them 2 be my MOH. How does this work. Would my FH have to have 2 Best men?

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Latest activity by Stephanie, on December 21, 2019 at 9:40 AM
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    Master January 2015
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    You can have 2 MOH, your FH doesn't have to have 2 Best Men.

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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
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    No, the wedding party is completely up to you two! There are no real rules for this. I have 2 MOHs (1 matron, 1 maid) and one BM, and FH has a best man and one GM. The sides don't have to match in their titles, or in their numbers.

    You should have the people you are closest to standing up with you, whatever the numbers and/or titles.

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    Master January 2015
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    We have the same exact wedding party lol

    One matron of honor, one maid of honor, one bridesmaid, one best man, and one groomsman! Smiley laugh

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  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
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    No not at all!! I had two matron of honors and one bridesmaid. my bridesmaid was my step daughter and i had her stand next to me and my MOHs on the end lol my DH had one best man. so do whatever you want! you guys don't have to have the same things.

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  • Nicole
    Super August 2020
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    I also have 2 MOH, and my FH has one best man. We still have an even number of bridesmaids and groomsmen including the MOHs and best man, so we’ll just pair them together.
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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
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    You can do whatever you like, and it doesn't need to be equal on the other side. You can have two MOH and your groomsmen can have one best man (or none) if he wants. It's totally up to you!

    I'm having one MOH and no other bridesmaids, and my FH is having between two and four groomsmen and undecided about a best man. It's really what works best for you.

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  • Paula
    Beginner December 2020
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    I have a Maid of Honor and a Man of Honor! The bridal party is completely up to you and don't feel obligated to have one MOH.

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  • Tamika
    Expert October 2019
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    I had one Bridesmaid, 1 Maid of Honor and 2 Matron of Honor and it worked out great!

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    Legend June 2019
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    I had two and my husband didn't have to have two best men just because I had two moh
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    Expert September 2022
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    You can totally have 2 Maids of Honor! It shouldn’t necessarily mean that your FH needs to have 2 Best Men.
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    Savvy June 2021
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    You don’t need to choose ! I also have 2 MOH’s, and it’s such a great decision if it works for you. It takes the pressure off of one person handling all of the responsibilities alone, and they have each other to bounce ideas off of and help plan stuff with.
    Our bridal party is 7 on each side , including my 2 MOH’s, and his 1 best man. Just do what works for you !
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  • Samantha
    Dedicated January 2022
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    You can have two MOHs and he still have 1 Best Man. The lines don't have to be match even if your intention was to have people walk down together.
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  • Stephanie
    Savvy September 2020
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    You can do whatever you want (my sides don’t match due to an unforeseen circumstance) however, my FH was a co-best man in one of his friends wedding and it was his least favorite part of the wedding. The other best man basically did none of the work of the best man and didn’t really help pay for anything when it came to the bachelor party either. He didn’t really know the other best man (he was a college friend and the other guy was a high school friend) so it could be different if the two girls are also close friends. My FH often mentions how he wouldn’t have minded if he was best man or not. Basically if you think someone is going to be offended by not getting the title they want, maybe they shouldn’t be in the wedding in the first place but if they both love and support you, they shouldn’t be hurt by who got the official title. Like I said, you can do whatever you would like, but I just don’t think people often think of this situation because I didn’t until it happened.
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