105K Wedding coming up on four weddings!!

I would take my family somewhere. wedding/vacay

That's a crazy amount on a wedding......for one day? I'd rather put that on living after the wedding. My favorite was the Thai/Jamaican wedding. But perhaps I'm partial...my fiance Jamaican :-)

OMG!!!! Did ya'll see that Egyptian wedding cake!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!??!!?!??!?!?!?!?! WOW!!!!!

And ummm.....there is NO WAY I would even DREAM of spending that much money on 1 DAY!!!!!!!! I'd rather put that in a house or car or something that means more to me and my FH!!!!!!! Having an expensive wedding don't mean jack crap to us!!!!!!!!!

$100000 is more than excessive, I can't see myself spending more than $50000 no matter how much I make for a living. I think that a LOT of it has to do with the number of guests which is why i don't want more than 100 - 150 guests and it may seen bad but i always said I wouldn't marry anyone with a really huge family because I REFUSE to spend a bunch on money on a bunch of people i don't know will probably never see again who will just give me crap gifts and leave me in debt. No thank you. I see my wedding day as my ultimate party but at the same time when the day is over that's it and so anything more than $50000 is ridiculous.