10/10/20

So we have been going back and forth with the idea of postponing our wedding. I know we still have time but my fear is if I wait to long I will not get a fall date in 2021. We didn’t go with the venue we really wanted because they didn’t have our 10-10-20 date available and now if we do postpone we would go with them. Our current venue is willing to take our deposit and apply it towards my daughter sweet 16 and our DJ is also willing to do the same because if we postpone and go with the venue we wanted from the beginning their wedding package includes the DJ and the photographer both of whom I know to be excellent. I reached out to my photographer explained what I was thinking and asked if our deposit could be applied towards a new engagement shoot so we could do new save the dates and she has refused. They will apply the deposit towards a new wedding date only. It’s not that big of a deal to me but I can’t believe she would rather keep the deposit and loose my business vs doing an engagement shoot on save the dates that would cost more then the deposit so she would be making addition money from me.