10 year old flower girl

I don’t think anyone is ever too old to be a flower girl. If you YouTube search this, you will find multiple weddings who actually had the bride‘s grandmother as a flower girl! And it was absolutely precious. If your daughter wants to be the flower girl, then that is exactly what she should be

I don’t think 10 is too old at all! I purchased a veil from JJs house Because I refused to spend $800 on the matching veil for my dress. The overall quality is decent. You definitely get what you see in the picture in my experience. I had my heart set on wearing my jimmy choos on my wedding day, but I saw these shoes on jjs house and I bought them and I absolutely love them! This picture does them no justice! Seriously! I was so surprised by the quality!

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Thank you both so much guess I was just overthinking it. I found a jr bridesmaids dress on jj house and we both love it! Love the shoes!

View Quoted Comment Awesome!! Glad it worked out Bride!

View Quoted Comment These look like Cinderella shoes!! 😍

There’s no age limit on being a flower girl. If it makes her happy, go for it.

10 is borderline where you could be either a flower girl or a jr bridesmaid.

Is JJs House your only option? Because they are based out of China they are hit or miss from past reviews on the forums , including that seamstresses will not touch their stuff to alter it. Azazie and Davids sell dresses.

She can wear any dress -- regardless of how the retailer labels it (e.g., "flower girl," "junior bridesmaid," whatever) -- and still be a flower girl! Honestly, I think a "highly motivated" 10yr old FG is the perfect age -- super excited, not likely to have a major breakdown in the middle of the wedding, etc. Congrats to your perfect FG!

View Quoted Comment Yes she will be the flower girl thank you for the feedback its much appreciated. I overthink everything then find myself overwhelmed 🤦🏻‍♀️

Hi Vicky!

There’s no age limit on being a flower girl. HERE IS the proof.

View Quoted Comment Thank you! That is so cute I wish my grama wasn't so far away!

She will be an amazing flower girl. I've seen grandmas and even male friends be "flower girls" lol as long as they bring joy to your ceremony doesn't matter the age.

View Quoted Comment Thank you for this comment!

My daughter will be my flower girl and 10 by the time of our wedding. I ordered her dress in junior bridesmaids size from azazie so it would fit. She may need a few alterations, but it works. She is set on being my flower girl too.

View Quoted Comment Aww yeay thats exciting! I'm going to order her the one we liked from jj house. It's white and plum purple.

View Quoted Comment That’s beautiful! She is going to be a beautiful flower girl!

Thank you!!

My daughter wanted to be the flower girl at my wedding but she was 9 and I did feel she was too old to be a flower girl. I presented being a Jr Bridesmaid to her in a way that made her feel very grown up and then we went and tried on dresses (grown up dresses of course). She loved that she was shopping in the grown up section and not the girls section and getting to try on and choose a dress that I normally wouldn’t let her wear was super special to her.
She was very proud to be a Jr Bridesmaid versus a flower girl.

View Quoted Comment Omg she looks beautiful!

I was a flower girl at my uncle's wedding at age 8/9 (I can't remember exact age right now). 10 does not seem like too much of a difference, to me.


So long as she is happy and you are happy, I see no problem! Also, the white and plum dress looks so pretty and ethereal, like a fairy. Would look perfect with a small flower crown, if the season and style of your wedding suits that.