10 hours no contact for bachelor party?

Just to add, this was not a planned trip, just a day party.

I would feel the same way! But this is his night, maybe he’s drinking or dancing or maybe the guys even took his phone to have a night out! He will hopefully text you soon! My fiancé left for his bachelor party around 1pm today and he’ll be back tomorrow! I’ve gotten a couple dozen texts from him, and I’m very surprised. I was prepared for much less mentally lol

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Its definitely out of character for him though. As I said, I didn't expect a ton, but at least 1 or 2. Btw I said for both of us, there would be no taking away phones.

View Quoted Comment I mean a bachelor party is definitely a unique once in a lifetime kind of thing! Maybe he’s waiting to tell you all about it when he gets home? I’m trying to ask as little as possible just to get the full picture later!

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Eh Idk. Trying my best not to read into it. Guess I do have my bachelorette party coming up and he can't get upset w/me not texting and having fun.

Aw, I wouldn't be upset. If anything, I'd be worried -- but I'm the sort of person that tells people to text me when they get home, text me when they're leaving, etc.; I'd just want to make sure he's okay and nothing happened. For a situation like this though, that amount of time with no contact seems reasonable.

My FH is great about texting me. The only time he doesn't is if he's on a camping trip or somewhere with poor reception, his phone dies, or something similar. We're silly about that though, and generally like to give each other a heads up if we're not going to be responsive for a while for whatever reason.

I'm sure he's just busy having a good time. When are you guys planning on seeing each other next after the party?

I would be upset too, maybe the guys took his phone away. I'm sure there's a reason. If he doesn't respond, maybe text his best man and just say a sweet message. Like "I hope you're all having fun, thank you for doing this for him. Please let him I know I love him".

I'd be worried more than anything. I didn't realize taking phones away was a thing, but maybe that's because I'm a little older and don't get involved with nonsense like that. The good news is that it's one night and then it's over. If his friends did take his phone, you can't be mad at him because there's only so much he can do to get it back without ruining the whole day. It's also possible that with certain activities it wouldn't be appropriate to be texting/calling. I would just remember how you felt without him calling and make sure you treat him with the respect you expected when you go to your bachelorette party. Even if your friends take your phone, borrow theirs or ask them to text your fiance to let him know you're having fun and are ok.

If he hasn't text you, try messaging him. Maybe he's just out having fun and the time slipped away from him and he doesn't realize how much time has gone by. Or maybe his friends gave him a hard time if he pulled out his phone. Personally I don't expect my fiancé to text me during his bachelor party. He's out for a night of fun with the guys. I know he'll be out late. Not to mention the last time he went out, I had to tell him to stop messaging me bc he went out with his friends to spend time with them, not to msg me. It's rude to be on your phone when you hang out with others. I understand being worried though. If you're used to having him text you and suddenly he goes that long, I'd be worried that something bad happened.

As for something else you said, about how he can't get mad if you don't msg him during your bachelorette party, don't ignore him or not text him bc you're upset. That will just hurt you and him. Just some friendly advice, not trying to be rude or anything.

He ended up texting me, I'm just a total worry wort.

Yea I wouldnt worry. Boys love to have fun. If something happened people would reach out to you. Xoxxooxx youre a great wife-to-be

View Quoted Comment Thats great!

I think texting him is fine, just saying you miss him & hope he is having fun. I didn't talk to my husband a ton at his bachelor party but he called when he got to their rental house then before they went out at night.

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I would worry like this too, so I totally get it! With my FH we stay in regular contact but if we're with friends for a day/evening we usual stay off our phones and the other one respects that.

I'm glad he ended up texting