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I really need some advice. About five years ago....I met a guy (lets call Ken) who was married. The marriage was not going too well and they had three kids...we ended up having an affair, his wife...

So, first I will say this: my fiance is kind, loving, giving and adds so much joy into my life. However, like any relationship, there are little issues here and there. And this is an issue that has...