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Reception is at lunchtime. Both sides of the family say we should do pot luck style but I feel like this is trashy; however since the family keeps mentioning the idea I'm confused as to what to do....

Don't know if the bouquets for my wedding party be the same color as their dresses? Any suggestions will help. My colors are peach, light blue and lavender. Groomsmen are wearing light blue polos and...