Discussions I've participated in

So, our date is WAY off, but I need to send save the dates now, as it'll be a destination over the holiday weekend for most and I'd like them to match the eventual invitations. Questions on how to say...

Looking for ideas and or experience.. I have seen the garter be given away, and I have seen the new husband take it off and the bride toss it. Want to do something different. Someone mentioned doing...