Discussions I've participated in

My fiance has no one he wants to stand w him in the ceremony. His adult son is unable to come to our state & he isn't particularly close to his family. I would still like my two Bff's to be in it...

So we are planning an hors d'oeuvre and wine reception. Has anyone been to a reception like this ? I don't want ppl to starve so we are doing quite a bit - I'm just wondering how much is too much