Activity for Carly

Hi all! I wanted some advice I am having a small wedding of 40 people tops and does it make since to pay a dj with a big setup and all? Or did any of you play your own music with your own list on some speakers? The only issue would be the music to...

This is probably a silly question but I have never been married before ...who do you go to for decorations is that a planner s job or what type of vendor is that called? Or is it just cheaper to find things and decorate yourself!? I'm trying to do a...