Activity for Kari

So I just had something come up that my planning brain had not considered - I am doing my own makeup and one of my fiance's friends graciously offered to do my hair as a wedding gift. However, my FMIL wants her hair and makeup done as well. My mom...

FH and I are pretty private people, and we don't really want 80+ pairs of eyes staring at us when we get married. The guest list is already bigger than I want it to be ( people you "have" to invite). Would it be weird to get married in a private...