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Does anyone know of some traditional or non-traditional things people do in Irish Catholic wedding ceremonies? Like does anyone have any specific traditions they have seen or used? I know of the Irish knot thing ceremony, but I was looking for some...

I totally do not want a bachelorette party, but I feel weird not having one since it is like the thing to do. Does anyone have any thoughts about having a bachelor and bachelorette party at the same time? I'm just not into that whole ladies night...

Do people usually have their BM's all wear matching shoes? Or do you guys let them pick out whatever shoes they feel like? Thanks,