Activity for Eritha

So I am not wearing a white dress, I am wearing a green wedding dress... Is it rude to ask my guests to refrain from wearing green?

Any other pagans in here? How did you do your ceremony? How did you deal with familial diffrences in religion? (Mom's side is cool...my dad's side is overly annoying and always trying to "save me" and my fiance's family is very Catholic). We have a...

Who didn't do a seating chart and just left a sighn with something's like "now that we're together forever, we want you to sit wherever" ? Did that work well for you? Did it cause drama?

Just wondering if it is ok to have a dessert reception, with some hors d'oeuvres/apitizers at a black tie wedding? We are thinking about starting the ceremony at 8pm, so the reception would be around 9pm and we would have an open bar Pleas help?