Activity for Lydia

I've always had long hair, but last year I cut 14 inches off and it is now about an inch past my chin. I'm debating on growing it out for the wedding or leaving it short. Every time I look up wedding hairstyles, it's long locks in beautiful updos....

I have my heart set on a pale blue or gray wedding dress, one if those beautifully whispy ones that reminds me of foggy mornings on the coast of Ireland. I am hoping for something along the lines of soft tulle or chiffon, a light material that moves...