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My fiancée and I are getting married in a private ceremony at a destination. We are having a reception a few months later. Our venue holds 100. Has anyone ever sent their invites out in "waves?" I'm thinking of sending invites to the people we know...

We are having a private wedding ceremony, just the groom & I. We are having our reception a few months later. We plan to show our wedding video, then make our entrance, then dinner, dancing, etc... Can anyone tell me, are itineraries & menus...