Activity for Rachael

I want to do unity sand instead of the candle. Is it wrong to not want to keep the unity sand after the ceremony? It seems like most brides don’t keep the unity candles, so why should I keep the sand?

So at hobby lobby they have the little box that says honeymoon fund written on it. Is it rude to put that out at my wedding?? I feel like it says give me money without saying it. My fiancé and I are moving into a house soon and we are going to be...