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Help So my fiance & I are getting married in Aruba however we live in South Carolina and our friend that is an ordained minister lives in Illinois. I'm not sure where to go to get our marriage license.

So I am doing a destination wedding and the only people invited to the wedding are parents/siblings & grandparents. However we are having a reception that everyone will be invited to. What is the proper etiquette on having a bridal shower?