Activity for marjean

So I picked my braid maids but my mother doesn't like my maid of honor Amanda she been my best friend for over 12 years and she is my god sons mother my mother wants me to pick my aunt (we are not that close) but her daughter is one of my braid maids...

We have decide a date now to budget is hell im in new york and the venues are so much money and my fiance and mother is trying to talk me into having it in the back yard helpp??