Activity for Kearney

Hi all- From reading a lot of posts on WW, I know it is not ok to B list and it is not ok to over-invite. Most of our guests will be from out of town (some from out of the country), and I am worried that a lot of them won’t be able to attend. With...

I'm new to the whole planning a wedding thing so this may be a dumb question- but when you all are setting budgets (I.e. $20k), are you including EVERYTHING like tax, gratuity, etc. or do you have a "discretionary budget" for that?