Activity for Andrea

So my FH and I have been talking and we dont know if we should have kids at our wedding...our children will be there but some of the people we invited have children that are out of control!! So is it rude to say NO KIDS even if ours are there and...

Does anyone have any good ideas for an alternative...i dont want numbers but something fun...I dont have a theme and I think thats why im having such a hard time. HELP!!

I just got engaged and am starting to plan early but my eyes are gonna pop out of my head from all the info. Anybody have any good ideas?