Activity for Kaitlin

I'm having so much fun shopping for my bridesmaids and flower girls, but I have no idea what to get my ring bearer. Does anyone have any good ideas? He is about 9 years old.

Is it okay to get married in a church that is the same denomination as you, but it's not the one you attend on the weekends? Will the church charge us to have our ceremony there? My fiancee and I both belong to two different churches, but they're...