Activity for Emily

So, I have ALOT of nieces and only a few nephews. One of my nephews is 13 and one is 5 mo. So, neither of them are really ring bearer age. So, what do you all think of having a female 'ring bearer'?? Or should I just have all my nieces be flower...

What are you guys doing to make your ceremony fun and meaningful?

Trying to keep my wedding under a couple Grand but I can't really find a venue that isn't too expensive. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to cut costs but still have a beautiful wedding of my dreams?