Activity for Gwen

Has anyone listened to the Bridechilla podcast? I absolutely love it and it changed the way I think about everything- highly recommend it for anyone planning a wedding!!

My fiancé and I found a great venue and we want to book it. We also want our pastor to marry us but we are just getting to know him and haven't started our premarital counseling yet. Is it weird to either a)just book the venue and tell him later or...

My fiancé and I looked at a venue in Santa Barbara we both liked but there's some stuff that's not totally appealing to me. A big portion of the venue is inside- it's re Santa Barbara Maritime Museum. It's funky and different but I imagined my...