Activity for Victoria

Advice please! I am having a black and white wedding. Black and white tuxes and black bridesmaid dresses. What color is okay for mom's to wear? Should they wear black too?

My fiance and I want to do a first dance, but we don't really want to have any other party like dancing. I want a romantic Christmas wedding. So I just want to know what the opinions are if that would be awkward? Should we just not have any dancing?...