Activity for Kelnesha Durrett

So I'm about a half inch taller than my groom without shoes. debating on whether I should wear heels because with heels I'm way taller than him. he says he doesn't mind that. but I don't want to be towering over him. what should I do?

I have 2 older sisters who I'd like to appoint as my maid of honor, but I also want to include my best friend who is recently married which I know is considered a matron of honor. I was thinking having one do the speech, one to hold ring/bouquet and...