Activity for Nikki

I just sent in my final revisions to my vows to my officiant. Getting married this Sunday! I think that's the last big thing I had to do. I'm so excited I cant contain it

12 days before our wedding and FHs mom calls to say his little siblings and step dad cant come because they have "other responsibilities" aka middle school sports games. Really we all know its because the step dad wont let his children go. But I am...

I'm getting so excited! Just gave my final count to the venue and the caterer, finishing up decor and seating chart, and then just have to pick up the license and FHs suit! I did just have to send a message to fh's stepsister that no she cannot RSVP...

I'm waiting on two families for RSVP's, if they come it will totally change the way we have our tables arranged. I've reached out to both of them (via Facebook since I actually don't have their numbers) and they both viewed my message and haven't...

Oops! So today is my birthday and because of the wedding, school, work, kid, etc. we didn't really plan anything. Well my mom was coming in town and she always wants to take my daughter for a sleepover so I thought since we'll have a babysitter we...

How is everyone figuring out where to sit people? We're just assigning tables but my head is exploding. We have about 100 people total (including vendors) and are not doing a head table. The entirety of our guest list is family. We have 8 tops and 10...

I'm a little less than 2 months away from my wedding and I haven't heard from the officiant since we booked her. I sent her a long email requesting her presence for the rehearsal and sending some readings we wanted in the ceremony on Monday. She...

I know theres a million of these but who do I tip? I know my photographer but not the day of, correct? I also have a videographer but she owns her own company. The officiant also technically is her own company but don't most officiants still get a...

I'm having trouble not being disappointed that I won't be getting a band. We went looking really early and I picked exactly what I wanted. But due to some unforeseen circumstances it's just something we can't afford right now. I know I'm being...

Okay I know this is stupid but what does it mean to hand cancel invitations? I've seen a few people say to make sure you do that. I'm sending invitations tomorrow and was just going to put them in the drop box. Someone please tell me why I shouldn't...

I'm a bundle of nerves. We have 85 days to go. I finally got the bar order in which means all our big vendors are booked so now we just have to finalize things and pay them. It's mostly down to small stuff like ordering decor and putting it together...