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We are planning to have an appetizers/cake/punch reception. And I just wanted to get some ideas from everyone about the type of appetizers people usually serve or would like to be served...? Please keep in mind, it's a small budget so we're not...

Is it really distasteful to invite everyone to the wedding but only have a reception for family and close friends? My FH knows just about everyone in our town and to have a reception with everyone there (don't know exact number but a couple hundred...