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I have a 9 year old daughter. Of course I think she's the prettiest girl in the world but I want her to be the flower girl. She's super excited about it too. However, my future m.i.l. said she's too old and that I should get my future husbands neice...

My mother passed away 6 years ago and my father passed away august last year. Is it acceptable to get rid of father bride dance and mother son dance

Is it really necessary to have a wedding planner? I have a lot of my stuff already planned out other than decorating day of, but should i have one just in case?