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I have my dress BUT my aunt would love for me to incorporate her dress (1977) into mine somehow. I have posted my dress photo on my profile page. Her dress is very lacey...it's really pretty but not me. How can I incorporate her dress with my new...

What is acceptable for a cake stand? I need two of them, one 14" and one 16". the one's I've seen are way over my budget...HELP!

We thought maybe we could all light the unity candle...or give the kids a necklace???? How do we involve our kids, ages 21, 16, 15, 12????? two boys and two girls?! mercy!

Any ideas???? I've made several calls but we're having a Thursday wedding and most people are not available. We do not want a woman minister. No offense to any out there but we just feel more comfortable with a man.

I need some serious help! I've cut back on my calories but I am gaining weight!!!!! What can I do?! My dress was perfect and now I'm 15 lbs over my wedding desired weight....ugh!!!!