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So my fiancé wants a backyard wedding which I'd be fine with since our theme is bohemian. But we have about 100 guests and I don't think we can fit them all in the backyard. He wants to have just family and some friends, but even then it's about 80...

I've always wanted a small dinner wedding, but my fiancé and I can't because we have so much family. So now That we're at 130 people, which isn't that much, considering that I started with 190. I have two lists, family and church people. We have kids...