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Wedding twins in Iowa! Figured this may be a great way to bounce ideas off of each other or just to be here when we have headaches and know what the others are feeling!

My wedding is December 15th of this year (2018). I need some advice on when to send out Save the dates, when to put for RSVP request date, when to send out invites, etc. since the wedding is right around holiday season, should I send Save the Dates...