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Hey Brides! What is the typical thing to wear to your bridal shower. It is more laid back/ not to formal. I noticed a lot of my facebook friends wearing white to their shower. Is that the norm? Or am I over thinking this?

My fiancé and I are paying for the wedding ourselves so we aren't trying to break the bank when it comes to the honeymoon. We are looking at Northern California for our honeymoon because we love the beach and want to see the redwoods. Do any of you...