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So I am wondering on who to invite to the bridal shower, we are having a destination wedding so not everyone can come or get a invite to the wedding, a lot of my family lives out of town so I doubt they would be able to make it to the shower. Do you...

Looking for a good deal on save the dates we are wanting to do a magnet for everyone. We are only needing to order about 60 of them. What does everyone recommended?

We are having a destination wedding and we will be sending out save the dates next month. Since it is a destination wedding should we send something else out with hotel and flight information? We have family and friends coming from all over.