Activity for Marissa

To have alcohol or to not? I started by wanting only wine and beer no liquor ( both our families like to celebrate and get too drunk and act sloppy) but now im not sure if to just have mixed drinks or to wristbans and 3 marks strikes your out?...

I completely forgot all about shoes and have no idea what to look for. Help I have a mermaid dress with a long train & need suggestions.