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Is it wrong to want to replace a bad memory with a happier one? My grandfather passed away the day that was decided for our wedding and now I'm getting backlash from one of my family members. I want to do it to honor him on the last day he was known...

Does anyone know of someone in Pennsylvania that would do a more pagan ceremony? Trying to find one is difficult and looking for suggestions. We are hoping that the wedding will be held in Cambria county, in PA. (not giving out a lot of extra...