Activity for Amber

We're doing passed-wine service during dinner and have a choice of either cabernet or pinot noir for the red option. I don't drink red, so was wondering if y'all had an opinion of which would be better!

My mom and dad were married very young and have subsequently "upgraded" her wedding rings. I'd love a unique way to incorporate my mom's original engagement ring in our big day as my something borrowed. I've considered attaching it to my bouquet, but...